I'M GLAD MOMY YOU NEVER GAVE UP

This one i dedicate  to the woman who would have chosen to get rid of me while in her womb but she did not. The woman who carried me for nine months, raised me up,fed me, educated me beat me up thoroughly; IL say it again, beat me up THOROUGHLY! But still walked me down the aisle to the man i love:)

Straight from my heart to yours mother. With all my love despite all
This is for you mommy!
 ...
I wonder momy, i really wonder
How you have managed to raise six children on your own
Was it easy?
Was it hard for you?
Are there times you've cried?
What of a smile?

I cant really remember the affluent life you remind us of
Especially when you are sad
But the absence of basic needs lingers on my mind at times
The struggle for meals,
The countless days without knowing peace
As the landlord appears
But momy you never gave up!

Even though the small room couldn't love us all
Yet your love comforted us to and fro
I remember the sad nights of leaking roof
And the sad days
of your sick children with flu
But momy you never gave up!

Now flash forward momy,just recently
You and i, hand in hand
Walking down that aisle
As you squeezed my hand so tight
I couldn't face your smiling face
Because i knew with tears you'd break
But one thing I'm glad,
Is momy you never gave up!

You may not be where you want to be now
But because of your perseverance and persistence,i know you will
Your Maker loves you, that i know
And because of you momy,
For sure i will never give up too!

love you mother; Caroline Martha Olenja:)

GRACE at CALVARY

How many times do we feel insufficient of the Grace of God? Sometimes we feel like we wanna do more to receive that Grace. I have been reading the book of Galatians and I've seen light slowly dawning to my former "works-filled" conscience. To be honest, i feel like i am going back to the basics of Knowing Christ and the power of His resurrection.Its all about the Grace of God.

The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ is amazing! I mean its what makes a former thief,liar, fornicator,murderer name it , stand before a Holy Perfect God with confidence; not because of anything else, BUT because Jesus Christ paid for these sins at the cross of Calvary.

Imagine this too: that the Grace of God abounds more in sin? I know it sound fishy and cultist. But that's what the Word of God says.That where sin abounds, grace abounds the more. And why? So that you and me can be drawn closer to God by His grace. How amazing is that? That even when you sin, there is grace to draw you back to righteousness.

It is God's will for us to enjoy His presence. It is His will to prosper us. But more so, it is God's will to make His grace known to us through our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.

There is this song that i have come to love; its called BURDENS ARE LIFTED AT CALVARY. Truly they are. At Calvary we find Grace and Mercy. At Calvary we find Jesus Christ.
This is straight from my heart.There is Grace and Mercy to help us in our time of need.
I hope you are encouraged child of God.

COULD IT BE THAT GOD IS SPEAKING?

COULD IT BE THAT GOD IS SPEAKING?

I have come to realize that stories speak. Personally they do, and I like sharing people stories as well this being one of them. Listen to thisJ

Anna was an orator. She loved speaking, and she was skillful in the art of Public speaking. Public Speaking was my favorite subject in campus and; I bet it was to Anna too. But another thing about Anna is the fact that she loved the Lord. She was keen to listen to the voice of the Lord and would always ask herself this question, “Is the Lord speaking. What is He saying?”

A very well-known organization where Anna was working discovered this key ability that she had. In that case every time there were inspirational seminars or any other ventures requiring speech giving, Anna would be called forth as she did exemplary well.

One time Anna was called to speak to a certain congregation. One thing she would always do before speaking to anyone was seeking the Lord. She would ask God, “What are you saying Dear Lord, Please speak” The Lord would give her a message and Anna would tell it as it is. This time it wasn't different. God indeed spoke, and the congregation was amazed!

Of course the organization invited Anna again and surprisingly enough, Anna spoke the same message. Fortunately, there were some who had not heard Anna’s message prior and they were amazed at how Anna was gifted and at the same time how the Lord used her.

One time the organization had a very special function with dignitaries and Anna was again called forth to speak. However, most of the invited guests present were not even the congregation Anna was well familiarized with. To their surprise, Anna spoke the same message without altering any word, not even the conjunctions therein. To add on to that, part of the congregation could actually help Anna speak and others walked out because they felt they were tired of hearing the same message. But Anna continued. She did not lose heart.

After the function, an agitated section of the invited guests felt it was time to approach Anna and inquire if she valued speaking and whether she had any form of originality and continuity in her speeches. To their surprise, Anna responded and this is what she said,

“You may think I am mad. But this is the truth. Every time before I deliver a speech of any kind, I usually seek the Lord for his advice and leading. It will surprise you that for other congregation, God gives different messages but for this particular one, the Lord has been leading me to deliver this same message. The reason being, there are hearers and no doers. Once His word is acted upon, He will give us the next message.”

Could it be that the reason why you and I are hearing the message over and over is because we have done nothing about it? Is God speaking to you today? Have you acted to His call? If not, then this is the time to act.

James 1:22 “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.”

THE POT WITH HOLES

THE POT WITH HOLES

This is a story I heard today and I thought it would be encouraging to share it.

Once there was a woman who used to go to the river early every morning to fetch water from the well. Though her pot had holes, the woman would still journey to the river with other ladies to fetch water. But by the time she reached her home, the pot would be half full.

The pot with time became weary especially after seeing how other pots would carry water while full and reach their destination while still full, something that had never happened to it. This made the pot to be very sad.

One day the pot decided to ask the owner,

“Mama, why do you still bother with me and yet I don’t benefit you much. If at all, I make you travel for more trips to fetch water unlike other women. Why don’t you get rid of me and get yourself a whole pot mama. I won’t feel bad.”

The woman, sad by the words of the pot looked at the pot and carried it to the well and told the pot to be very keen and observe every detail of their journey. So they went and the woman as usual, drew water with the pot and carried it. But as they were walking back, the pot observed that the path they always used had very beautiful flowers planted on it, and its water would fall on all the flowers .But something special happened such that every time a single drop of water would fall on the flowers, they would dazzle and sprout. Again the pot observed another wonder; that the path other women used had no flowers. Infact it was dry and dusty.

Once they reached home, the pot asked the woman,

“Mama, I noticed something today. That where we usually pass, there are flowers on the ground and every time water pours on them, they dazzle and sprout unlike the other ground where whole pots pass”

The woman with a smile on her face said,

“Yes! Exactly so my pot. I bought you with holes because I knew only you were unique to water my flowers but at the same time carry some water for me to use. The beauty of my flowers is as a result of your work. Never despise yourself my pot and never compare yourself with other pots. Only you can do what other whole pots can’t. You are unique and I love just as you are!”

Well, I think many times we are like the pot with holes. We spend time thinking and battling with our weaknesses, failures and misfortunes that we forget to whom we belong. This is what 2corinthians 12:9 tells us

But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me”

There is no-one who is useless in this life. We may be weak yes, but even in our weaknesses, Christ’s power is made PERFECT in us! What an assurance!

Be encouraged today Child of God. You are unique. You may be broken but Lord Jesus Christ loves you to death! Literally He died so that you may live and your life is precious to Him. Hallelujah to King Jesus!

Victory is assured with Jesus Christ!

Soul- Tie barriers

Soul- Tie barriers

Have you ever had a hard time differentiating between your heart and soul? I did. I would sometimes refer to my heart not realizing that in real sense I was referring to soul. I bet most of us have been caught in this dilemma. We shall try to understand what the soul is really made up of in order to understand how a soul tie comes about.

What I’m about to share today is courtesy of Pastor Nellie Shani of Breaking Barriers International(BBI), who helped me realize the importance of this subject matter and how ignorance in it can really affect our present and future relationships whether positively or negatively. And so I give all the credit to God and to pastor Nellie for being used by God to open my eyes. I pray we shall learn together.

Firstly, what is a soul tie? A soul tie can be simply described as an emotional (also thoughtful or willful) attachment one may have with someone else.

Why emotional, thoughtful or willful? We shall answer in a while.

I came to realize that I have a soul-tie with my husband because when the two of us were joined together in Holy matrimony, we became one flesh; physically, emotionally and even spiritually. It is the same with sibling relationships, or parent-child relationships, or even boss-employee relationships etc.

There are two kinds of soul-ties;

·         Positive/godly soul ties

·         Negative/ungodly soul ties

Any relationship that does not produce the essence of the Holy Spirit will definitely forge in ungodly soul tie. I know this is where the rubber meets the road for many relationships, and some may already be asking what this implies. Well, let’s get deeper…

What happens when you think of a person and what you feel is pain, anger, resentment or such emotions? Well truth is told these emotions will certainly not produce the righteousness of God.

Ask yourself these questions;

• Ø  I’m I in bondage to any person such that before I make ANY decision I must always ask myself what they would think of ME or the decision.
• Ø  Is there somebody in my life who manipulates me or I manipulate them?
• Ø  I’m I easily controlled or control others?
• Ø  I’m I tormented by thoughts of a former lover or friend?
• Ø  I’m I truly free to be all that God has intended me to be without any person’s interference?
• Ø  Have I bound myself to someone by my words?
• Ø  Is there anyone I am carrying in my heart? Is there anyone I have not forgiven?

If your answer to all these questions is NO, then hurray! You are free! As far as this is concerned, you have a healthy relationship with your spheres. But if your answer to one or all is YES, then there is need for deliverance. But praise to God through our Lord Jesus Christ because the Son of man came to set the captives free and therefore He who the son sets free, is free indeed! Glory to King Jesus!

Why the Soul?

Inorder to understand this, we need to get to scripture

Galatians 5:23

“May God Himself, the God of peace sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ”

The temple described in the Old Testament was divided into three parts;

• Ø  The outer court
• Ø  The inner  court
• Ø  The Holy of Hollies

With this regard, human beings have also three distinct parts;

Ø  The body- which can be related to the outer court

Ø  The soul- which can be related to the inner court

Ø  The Spirit- which can also be related to the holy of hollies

The soul moreover has 3 vital parts;

Ø  The mind- THINKING

Ø  The emotions- FEELINGS

Ø  The Will- ACTIONS

At this point, it is important to note that a soul tie will affect us and our relations whether positively or negatively because of how we are affected in our minds (thoughts), our emotions (feelings) and our will (actions)

I will have to pause here for now, but we shall talk more on examples of soul ties and how we can break them on our next sessions

Blessings

What are These Invisible Ropes?

What are These Invisible Ropes?

I never knew I was so afraid of darkness until power goes out. One day I had reached home much earlier than usual from work, and as usual, I went straight to the kitchen and started cleaning up dishes as well as tidying my house. I was now preparing to make supper when suddenly the lights went out. Guess what I did? I literally ran out of the house like a mad woman. (Sometimes when I think about this, I start laughing)

Fortunately power was back, and my husband was also home. I explained to him what had just occurred and he was perplexed. Again such a situation happened but this time round we were together in the house. He was in the living room and I was in the bathroom. I literally ran to the sitting room where he and I was panting heavily! He asked me, “Brenda, why are you afraid of the dark?” I told him, “I don’t know. It’s just that I hate darkness. I actually fear something will attack me”

It’s amazing that something like FEAR can tie many and even hinder them from accomplishing their God given purpose. Many of us are afraid of others, we, situations etc and we allow fear to live and even rule us. This rope called fear is an obstacle to success and sadly cannot produce any good fruit no matter how hard we cultivate it.

I got this image from a fear site:

My question at this point is why are we often so afraid? Well think about it, who is the perpetrator of fear? The devil. His ultimate desire is to steal, kill and destroy. But good news is Jesus Christ came that we may have life and life in abundance.

With Jesus Christ, the rope of fear is cut and faith begins to take over. Get encouraged today and overcome all your fears through the power of the cross in Calvary. Listen to what Psalm 27:1 says,

Psalm 27:1

The LORD is my light and my salvation-- whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life-- of whom shall I be afraid?

Are there other invisible ropes?

We shall look at that in our next piece. Hope you are encouraged so far by these two pieces. Let me know what you think of them as well.

God bless you

He Who the Son Sets Free!

He Who the Son Sets Free!

Two days ago I attended a very important seminar with my husband and I was stunned at the teachings. I realized it is very easy to walk in this world claiming to be free yet bound in ropes. There is a game (I don’t know if it qualifies to be a sport) I used to enjoy playing when I was a young girl. We called it “double ropes” In this game, two people would turn two ropes around in different directions and one in the middle would try as much to skip without being touched by the rope as illustrated below;

I realized that sometimes we may walk in this life jumping at our situations like the girl in the middle. But the truth is there are invisible ropes that may bind us because of our ignorance. But there is power in the name of Jesus Christ, because truly he who the Son sets free, is free indeed.

What are these invisible ropes? We shall talk about them in our next piece.